There were several times during my marriage when we did not have health insurance because ex had been fired or quit his job. He was the main breadwinner of the family, so we depended on him for our family’s health insurance. As I look back over those days, I am amazed that during the time of not having health insurance, no major health issues happened with my children.
Fast forward to this past summer. I had my annual mammogram on June 28. A few days later I received a call back from the hospital breast center. They wanted me to come back in for another set of diagnostic tests because they had “found something”. On July 12, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. I decided to start a blog about my cancer journey because it was an easier way to communicate en mass than to constantly be sending out texts or messing around in Facebook. Firefox is the best way to view the blog, cmrozmycancerjourney.com.
After the diagnosis of Invasive Ductile Carcinoma in my left breast, I underwent a series of tests. During an MRI, another tumor was found. This one was smaller than the first tumor. I opted for a mastectomy with reconstruction. On August 30, I had surgery to have my left breast removed. I was out of work for 5 weeks on Family Medical Leave. I am now back at work full-time. I was lucky to have had enough sick time and annual leave time accumulated to be able to take Family Medical Leave Time.
I did my homework prior to the testing and surgery. I contacted my insurance company and asked questions like: How much of the cost of the tests and surgery will my insurance cover? What kind of deductible do I have? Are all my doctors in network? Is the hospital in network? What do I need to do prior to surgery regarding insurance provider notification?
Luckily, I have great insurance. The hospital and the university were once together under the same umbrella. They split several years ago and are now separate entities. However, employees of the university still receive a substantial discount for medical services at the hospital. My portion of the medical costs for this cancer comes to about 5% of the overall bill.
But what if you don’t have great insurance and you are facing a health crisis? Medical debt is the number one reason for declaring bankruptcy.
- Contact your insurance provider and discuss the situation with them. What will they cover? What is your deductible? What is your out-of-pocket?
- Whatever you do, DO NOT take out a payday loan to cover your medical bills.
- Talk to the hospital and doctors’ billing offices. See if they are willing to work with you in paying the medical bills.
- Make a spreadsheet of every medical bill. Pay off the smaller bills first, then pay off the larger bills.
- Find out if the hospital has a benevolence program and find out if you qualify for a reduction or forgiveness of your medical debt with the hospital.
I had an emergency appendectomy with an overnight hospital stay without insurance. The hospital had a benevolence program and my bill was substantially reduced. Some of my doctors also worked with me to pay their bills.
Facing a health crisis on your own is frightening, especially when you live on a tight budget. That’s why you need to dig and ask questions. What kind of community resources are available to you? Does the hospital have a program to assist with paying medical bills? I am blessed to have a great community around me – my church, my small group from church, my family, my children, my friends and my partner, Cycle Dude. Reach out to your community and ask for help if you are facing a health crisis. Don’t go it alone. We are not meant to face life alone. We are meant to face like in community. Stay tuned. . .